The dancing
started after dinner was done, Ashley & Mike made their speeches before
James & I thank everyone for making it. At some point James saw the grooms
cake I had made for him, in the shape of a Stanley Cup, which he
thought was the best thing ever, the rest of the hockey players loved it too.
After we danced
our first dance, to "Me and You" by Kenny Chesney, some other songs
played before James grabbed the microphone from the DJ booth.
"Can I
please have my beautiful wife join me on the dance floor?" He announces,
as I make my way towards him.
I face him when
he tells me to not look anywhere but at him, and he's telling me this as he's
looking to the door, like signaling for someone to walk in.
James takes my
hand as I recognize the song starting when singer comes out onto the dance floor. James
had somehow pulled some strings and got Brantley Gilbert to come and sing
"My Kind of Crazy" at our wedding. Holy cow!! He is one of my
favorite country singers and how James got him out here, well that just won him
major points in my book! He even signed his guitar and gave it to us to keep!
The rest of the
night was amazing. We cut into the cake and had more champagne as the night
went on and the dancing continued. James and I called it a night around 12:30,
which was about the time everyone else started leaving.
The next
morning we had breakfast at the hotel with our families and the wedding party,
and then went to my parents house to get more sleep and pack for our honeymoon,
that we were leaving for the next day, which I STILL don't know where we're
going.
Morning came
and my parents took us to the airport for our flight out to the BAHAMAS!! Ah
I'm beyond excited because I've seen so many pictures before and I've always
wanted to go out there. And now I am! With my husband! :D
I think it
should be a requirement to take a 6 day vacation to the Bahamas every year!
That was probably one of the best vacations I have ever been on. I did
get sick a few times when we went out on a boat, which is never fun but I
battled through it. Unfortunately, it was time to go back to New Mexico to make
the drive back home.
It had been a
month and I had officially changed my name on everything. It felt good to
see everything say Jamie Neal. I loved it. I was back in the office by the next
Monday, planning the red carpet event for the upcoming home opener...yeah,
already. But it was a new season & oh yeah, we have a Stanley Cup banner to
raise! :)
James started
heading home to get ready for Jordan & Heather's engagement dinner. After
leaving the office, I was thinking about stopping for groceries when I heard a
whole bunch of noises around me and everything went black.
*
"Where's Jay?" Jordan asks as him, Heather & I stand in the kitchen
"I don't know, I thought she would
have been home by now, she's never late for anything," I say
Then my phone rings, I'm hoping it’s Jay
but its some random number, which I almost don't answer, but something is telling
me I need to
"Hello?" I say
"Mr. Neal? Are you related to Jamie
Neal?" The man on the line asks
"Yes, she's my wife, what happened?
Where is she?" I say, now panicking
"She's been in a car accident, Mr.
Neal. You need to come to UPMC right away,"
"Is she going to be ok?"
"She's beat up pretty bad, but yes
sir, she'll be fine,"
"I'll be right there," I say and
hang up
I was unbelievably thankful that Staalzy
& Heather were there, because I was in no state to drive. I barely give
Jordan time to park before I run into the hospital & the receptionist is
sending me to the 3rd floor as a million things are running through my head.
The nurse leads me to the room where Jay is;
I walk in to see her laying in the bed, motionless. My beautiful wife, bruised
up and bleeding. I can't help but break down and cry.
I'm in the hallway when the doctor comes to tell me she has
bruised ribs, bruises from the seatbelt & airbags, a cut on her arm and a
bruised cheekbone. But she will make a full recovery and be ok, thank god
because that was the most important thing.
I had to talk to the police officer; he
told me that she was extremely lucky with not getting any worse injuries.
The driver who hit her was drunk and pinned her in the car between his
car and the guardrail. He suffered minor injuries & totaled both cars but is in jail,
and will be for a long time with his history.
"Mr. Neal? Your wife is awake, she's
asking for you," a nurse says from Jay's door
"Baby, oh my god," I say, trying
to hug her without hurting her
"I was so scared James, I had no idea
what happened," she tells me, crying into my embrace
"You're ok, and that's what's
important. The accident was pretty bad, I was so scared for you too, I can't lose
you," I tell her
"I love you so much baby, I'm glad
your here, I don't like it here,"
"I love you too, the doctor is doing her best, and I'm going to take you home as soon as I can," I say, kissing
her forehead, reassuring her
"We're supposed to be going to
dinner!" she says
"I think Jordan & Heather will
understand, they were who brought me here, they're in the waiting room,"
A few hours later, the doctor gives us the
OK for Jay to be discharged, she hands me some paperwork to help with her
injuries, and prescriptions to pick up.
We got Jay to Jordan's car & head
home. I was so thankful to have her home where I could be with her.
People always say those are the phone
calls where your heart sinks, the calls you never want to get. That is
definitely a call I never want to get again, but I'm thanking god that her
injuries weren't any worse.
I tell Staalzy to go enjoy their dinner but
him and Heather both want to make sure she's ok, Heather offers to go for her
prescriptions, which I am also thankful for. They are both so unbelievable to
stick around and help me.
"How is she?" Heather asks as I
walk into the kitchen
"Better, she's asleep. She had things
running through her mind that she told me, and started crying again," I
say
"Poor girl. I'm glad she's ok
though," Staalzy says
"Me too, I don't know what I'd do
without her,"
"Take care of her, that's what you do
best," she says
"Thank you guys so much for
everything, really."
"Absolutely. Go take care of you're
wife, don't hesitate to call if you need anything,"
"Will do,"
*
The last few
days had been such a blur. I don't remember much from the accident, just the
EMTs asking for my name & someone to call. Oh & the pain too.
I've been doing nothing but lying in bed sleeping.
James called my
parents for me to let them know what happened, and his parents also, all of who
asked if he needed help, which he kindly declined. Plenty of the wags
came by with food and stuff; Vero spent a lot of time with me too, since they
live close. I had to get some stitches removed, and I could finally lay in a
nice hot bath, which I've been dying to do for so long.
Tonight is the
home opener and even though I couldn't do anymore planning with the wags, I was
dying to go to see the Stanley cup banner being raised & of course to
support my husband, because he's been nothing but a life saver since the
accident.
We got to the
arena the same time James always does. I'll admit I was pretty scared to be in
a car again, I was jumpy on our way to the arena and cringed a couple times
when cars pulled out next to us. James held my hand the whole time because he
could sense my nerves.
Miranda was
there already, and so was Allie & Melissa. The girls asked about the
accident, I only told what I could remember, and that James told me that my car
was totaled. I loved my car so much, I was dreading getting a new one.
I was already
still an emotional wreck, so the banner raising ceremony was a little emotional
already. The game against the Avs started out pretty slow, but we won 4-2. Good
start to the season I must say so myself :)